Tuesday, August 12, 2008

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Think Positive


Strategies of Positive Thinking to Change Your Way of Thinking
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want to get more results, the more you act.
Nicoletta is a client of mine, a nice lady next to fifty entrepreneur in the catering sector. The
'm helping to rebuild self-esteem that has lost over the years, and good to want more.
is so happy with his improvement that he constantly speaks around to friends, acquaintances, customers of his restaurant.
This week he hosted a dinner with some of her friends with stories and intrigued by the other which was a surprise.
Wednesday evening I find myself at the table with six women, two young girls, along with a lady of a certain age do not know - and that perhaps did not expect my presence -, Nicoletta, and two more mature ladies that instead , just wanted to meet me and talk to me.
While waiting for the waitress, one of two mature ladies, Maria Rosa, tells me that work in multi level marketing and selling essential oils and creams of a famous company of natural products. In my time I tell myself that I had experience in sales and I'll tell you when to "sell" (I felt rather to sell) the legendary Goblin vacuum cleaners.
The lady of a certain age enters the conversation and asks me where I am and what I do there to have dinner with them.
With a little bit 'of good humor, I explain that I was graciously invited and I am a motivational trainer and most importantly, a personal coach that helps people to exploit.
My explanation has the result of attract the attention of two young girls and mature ladies and, of course, of Nicole that I knew already.
While I know that the lady who asked the question - I think his name was Renata - a contraction of the shoulders and pulls back with the body.
Who knows what effect he has made knowing that I was a mental coach?! The evening runs
pleasant, including a glass of wine, smiles, jokes and a lot of questions, in particular by two curious girls from my work.
Maria Rosa, then, a wonderful lady about sixty years, is a volcano of optimism and positivity. The opposite of Renata pessimism that shines more pores.
At one point one of two girls, Federica, ask me for advice on how a guy who likes to win and, although not an expert of seduction, I offer some useful straight.
note that the attitude of Renata towards me changed:
is now more available, more open.
I still talk to Federica and I ask her if the boy is aware of your interest and I replied that "he knows that I like" (note that Federica is assumed that he knows, in reality can not be convinced and at the end admit of the evening).
Then I ask if he has ever tried to tell her directly and she, blushing, I replied "absolutely not" (so, I wonder, how did he know ...).
Finally, I ask the third and final thing: if it ever went out with him and the girl, looking down, I say ... "maybe" (but dear Federica, and if he was more so for you?). Dialogue is always
more engaging and advice, even mature ladies, flake galore. Renata also become more involved, and pushes Federica wondering several things.
Speaking to Faith and the other, I note that "If you get results in life, you learn to act.
Making of actions to build the conditions for what you want. "
Federica, instead, merely want the boy, without putting any action in the field to conquer. You can also
so that you're reading? Yes!? Too bad, because I found out the hard way that you want to get + results, + you have to act.
In the case of Frederick, the action could come from at least three different forms:
say openly that the boy she liked (not to assume that he knew);
ask him to come out openly with you (He could also be more shy and reserved for you);
do exactly the opposite: instead of hanging from his lips when he met him, pretending that there was and remain absolutely indifferent (often, when people know they are in the spotlight, if they catch a few ', could be interesting to try to let indifference). Of course
friends more experienced than I in the sublime art of seduction could tell Federica other suggestions other than 10/20 and better. Certainly
there is a fact, Federica did the only thing "not" had to do: "Not to act"!
At the end of the evening were all happy to have made the best of my knowledge and advice that I had excused both the Federation is to Elena (the other young girl). The same
Renata looked more serene and happy to have known me, and as we prepare to greet understood why: she was the mother of Federico and had appreciated the advice that I offered to his daughter, who felt shy and need a helping hand.
I hope my story makes you understand two things: If
in your life you get results with a capital R, you must learn to act, when
If you know of You get people driving by first impressions, you might be led to give an opinion wrong.
Remember: + Do you want to get results, you must act +.
And again, stop to evaluate others on the basis of sympathy or antipathy. Play
people and try to understand them.
Again, that is the advice to "act", because if you ask questions and talk you may find that they are much closer to you than you can imagine. In late evening
Renata told me that even you did in your little something to help others: he was always available on the phone to listen to your friends and give them a word of comfort. When he noticed that
I was helping her daughter, without asking anything in return, he realized that I was "similar" to her and she accepted.
summary, complained less and act more.
Acting might be wrong, but maybe you can get results.
not acting, delaying the time, you do not nothing bad will ever happen.
Although of course, not anything nice.
I leave you with a wonderful quote by Benjamin Franklin:
"You love life? Then do not squander time, because that is what life is made of. "
You act in life? Leave me a comment to your post.
Ps: I forgot, in my ebook "Think Positive" I spent the entire seventh and last chapter of the Campaign.
I have called "dream big and acts small."

by Giancarlo Fornei (Mental Trainer & Motivational Coach) Author

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