Saturday, August 2, 2008
Tarnished Aluminium Pot
Starting today, for at least 3 or 4 times a week, I shall address issues that affect the lives of everyday life, such as self-esteem, love, seduction, work, wealth.
Of course everything written there is not, as they say, my sack of flour, but I'm sure, what you see is also very interesting for you as it is was for me.
start with self-esteem.
1) Believe in yourself.
No one outside of you can change what you feel inside, and your decisions are not the conditions of life determine your fate ..
First keep in mind that no one outside of you can change what you feel inside, because they are your decisions and not the conditions of life determine your fate.
This is because your internal representation of reality is not exactly reproduce reality, but only an interpretation is filtered through your beliefs and your personal values, an interpretation that you can choose to use to your advantage to make your life happier.
You can change your life in an instant, leave your limits in a second, by sheer force of will.
Focus on your goals in your mind and creates a visual, auditory and sensory of the person you want to become.
Comunicagli security, confidence, passion, love, happiness that you want, live your feelings, listen to his words decided on, keep his eyes clear and his deep breath. Simplifies its rules: Make it easy to meet their values \u200b\u200band hard to break them. Uploaded
of its energy. And start living like that person, which is part of you, without aspettare.Raccogli the challenges that life presents you, meet with your new identity, your security, with confidence in you.
concentrates on how would you feel and how you feel when you have overcome, and with the positive state of mind you will win any difficulties, present, past and future.
Create an alternative for your painful memories, relive, with the new resources now available to you, your past experience, changing the perception and eliminating the negative connotations.
Set your goals, believe in what you do, be responsible, ambitious and determined, we think big and be very optimistic, always feel the security to achieve your goals and overcome any challenge.
The failures do not exist: every experience of life contributes to your inner growth and to create a useful reference for your future.
The difficulties are challenges, negative emotions are only stimuli that guide you to the finish line. From trust to the words and communication: the shape is not important but the content, the idea they want to get the result you want.
People are not your behavior: you must always go further, be flexible, to understand the views of others, interpret their behavior and perceive the need.
make new experiences, follow the adventure, traveling, meeting new people, create new references that may broaden your horizons, expand your level of choice, enhance your skills in all areas.
Do you believe in constantly improving yourself every day improves your quality of life, learning and developing new distinctions on how to add value to your existence. Why are you the only you create your own destiny!
2) language and mood.
The way you speak and refer to yourself, you tend to build an image corresponding to the language used. If you define "rage" instead of "angry" there are strong implications that actually go to change your mood. So in every moment of your life trying to resize the words negative, positive and use a vocabulary of winning metaphors that can make you live more calmly every event in life.
3) Physiology and mood.
E 'is well known that the condition affects the physical and mental changes. Think for example when you're depressed: eyes down, shoulders hunched, rapid breathing. Fortunately, the opposite is also true: when you're feeling down, try to regulate our breathing, to make it deeper, try to broaden your shoulders and keep up the look: you can not but feel better, more peaceful, more free.
4) Self-esteem and identity.
You have a very precise identity that has been built over the years with the environment in which you lived, the people who have attended, from the stimuli and experiences you have faced. But this identity is really valid? The answer is no, because we are not masters, because it is an identity that limits us and it wears out slowly.
Today you can decide freely and those who want to be calm.
Build a table to become the person you want: in your mind creates a visual, auditory and sensory of the person you want to become.
Comunicagli security, confidence, passion, love, happiness that you want, live your feelings, listen to his words decided on, keep his eyes clear and his deep breath. Uploaded its energy. And start living like that person, which is part of you, no more waiting. Responding to the challenges that life presents you confront them with your new identity, your security, with confidence in you.
Now look inside and find out what are your core values \u200b\u200bdo you value the safety of principal, act always knowing what you want, look at the objective you want to achieve and always move in that direction.
Fate does not happen, is what you choose tu.Semplifica your rules: Make it easy to meet your values \u200b\u200band hard to break them. For example, if you
to be loved means that the Your partner must say I love you and you must do whatever you want, then your rule is very difficult to meet and probably will go through life suffering in search of the right person who will never arrive. However
every person has his own way of interpreting reality, so you can determine how to ensure that your values \u200b\u200bare met: simplify your rules!
For example, you may reach the value of love when someone loves you, whenever you love someone, every time you're generous and caring, every time you see people happy.
This would live a life full of love and avoid many frustrations.
Continue Monday, August 4.
Edited by James Brown.
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